Table of Contents
Introduction
1. Getting Totally Ready for Training
Physical Readiness
Social Readiness
Intellectual Readiness
Emotional Readiness
Readiness Checklist
2. In Grandma’s Day
Toiletting Competition
Today’s Pitfalls
Dealing With Criticism
Avoid the Hard-Line Approach
Who’s Really in Control?
The Balance Between Generations
Good Ideas from Grandma
3. A Place to Start
Finding Time
Underpants and Potty Chairs
Getting Started
Toiletting Accidents
Cleaning Up After Accidents
Three Training Approaches
Working with Your Child Care Provider
More Tips for Toiletting Success
One Parent’s Training Story
Getting Started Checklist
4. When Your Plan for Training Doesn’t Succeed
Ignoring the Message
A Temporary Return to Diapers
Regression
Can I Have a Diaper, Please?
Fears
5. To Reward Or Not to Reward
Social Rewards
Positive—Not Negative—Reinforcement
Communicating Clearly
Diaper Days
Tangible Rewards
6. Unplugging Power Struggles
Responding to Power Struggles
Steps to End a Potty Training Power Struggle
Avoiding a Power Struggle
Personality Types Prone to Power Struggles
Two Important Points
7. Night Training and Bed Wetting
Stress
Bed Wetting
A New Attitude
Consult Your Physician
Antidiuretic Hormone
Is There Anything That Can Be Done?
Wetting Alarms
Self-Esteem
8. Constipation, Bowel Retention & Encopresis
Encopresis
Responding to Soiling Accidents
What To Do
How Diet Can Help
Preventing Encopresis
One Final Tip
Checklist for Dealing with Bowel Retention & Encopresis
9. Putting It All Together
Parenting Styles
Combining Different Parenting Styles
Timing is Key
Two Year Olds: The Demand for Autonomy
Maintain a Loving Relationship
Final Tips & Reminders
Appendix A: Average Children’s Toilet Training Progress
Suggested Reading
Books for Parents to Read to Their Children
Books for Parents
Index
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