Help! The Kids Are at It Again

What’s going on with the siblings?
Four necessary people skills
Developmental issues in sibling conflicts
Temperament
Temperament affects sibling conflicts

STAR process
STAR points and tools
Using the STAR process to teach sibling skills

Achieving belonging
What children need to know about belonging
Parent’s role in children’s learning
Using the STAR parenting process (examples)
Wise words

Exploring Boundaries
What children need to know about boundaries
Tools to maintain boundaries
Parent’s role
Using the STAR parenting process (examples)
Wise words

Dealing with feelings
What children need to know about feelings
Parent’s role
Using the STAR parenting process (examples)
Wise words

Solving Problems
What children need to know about power
Parent’s role
Steps in solving problems
Steps in helping kids negotiate
Steps in dealing with hurtful power
Using the STAR parenting process (examples)
Wise words

S – Stop and focus
T – Think of ideas
A – Act effectively
R – Review & revise

Five questions to ask yourself
If you suspect a problem
Wise words to end with

Books on siblings
Books on temperament and differences
Guidance books
Teaching problem solving and negotiation
Books for children about feelings and power
General aids